Diving Into Who You Are

Most people have difficulty looking inward or being put under the microscope. It makes them feel vulnerable and they often overestimate strengths and underplay weaknesses. But to know what type of career opportunities may best suit you, you must look inward. No matter how difficult this task may seem, you’ll only continue to grow in your career after you identify your motivations, how you think and make decisions, and the impact of your behavioral tendencies.

Many of you might be hesitant, thinking you don’t need to know anything about your traits and drivers to grow professionally. Big mistake. If you’ve been looking for what has been missing in your career and what has kept you from progressing, this self-awareness is it. Let’s dig into who you are, so you can find that golden opportunity.

What drives you? Drivers are the values and interests that influence your motivation and engagement. They can be specific (such as wanting to earn $100,000 or more) or broad (such as preferring work that gives you freedom from organizational constraints). Think of drivers as your passion and purpose, the things that help you get out of bed on the days when you really want to curl up underneath the covers. Some of the more common drivers include challenge (are you driven by tough assignments?), structure (do you prefer stability, predictability, and job security?), and balance (do you want flexibility that can ensure you have a balance between your work life and personal life?). By determining your drivers, you’ll be able to understand the best culture fit for you and how likely you are to be engaged by certain roles.

What’s in your thinking and behavioral DNA? Do you see the glass half full or half empty? Are you comfortable in a room full of strangers or want to be the wallflower? Are you a tactical or strategic thinker? Some of the common traits that can help you figure out how you perform best include risk taking, persistence, assertiveness, and focus. While certain natural tendencies can change over time—an introvert can learn to master small talk—it’s good to examine them to know where your abilities stand now. Are you comfortable with unanticipated changes of direction? If so, one of your traits is adaptability or being able to tolerate ambiguity. Do you like to pursue a deep understanding of even the most obscure information? Your curiosity could be useful in solving complex problems with creative and intellectually driven solutions. Traits guide your behavior, but can be very difficult to observe—which is why assessing yourself is so important.

Remember, once you better know who you are, you’ll be able to articulate your value and understand where you’ll fit best. As Aristotle said: Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.


George Metanias